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Wednesday, 10 June 2015

Riding the roller coaster, part 1 - Darkness


When I go to sleep at night I don’t worry about where I may wake up, although I often hope it’s a better place than before I went to sleep. When I wake I usually know where I am today.

Usually I wake to the sound of my alarm and sit up in bed with a groan, scratch my balls and stagger off to the bathroom for a hot shower. The shower drags me kicking and screaming into reality and this is when I know for sure.

If I wake with the darkness I know it going to be a long day, I feel the distress and try to convince myself it’s going to be ok, I can make it through the day and get back to the safety of my bed.

But some days it just not like that, some days I wish I could hide away, the day can be so long, I feel lethargic, drowsy and disinterested, its take all my strength to push up the shop front and try to appear normal. Convince people I’m just like them, an ordinary every day bloke doing his best for the greater good, when what I really want is to cry and scream, let the anguish drag me down and consume me.


It’s easy to drive people away with anger, with negativity. Some days I get to work early so I don’t have to speak to anyone, i put my headphone in and hide, from everyone, from everything, the whole world. Just leave me alone so I can make it to one more sleep.

Recently there have been more bad days than good but i'm a fighter so I keep going, its only when the wheels fall off you realise that you haven't been “right” for a while, it sneaks up on you and bang, you are on your arse again. The problem with this is the damage it can do to the people around you, relationships and jobs suffer because thats where you have the most invested, unfortunately you don't know until the damage is done and often its too late.

Imagine hanging from a cliff, the strain in your arms makes every muscle scream, your fingers are raw and slipping closer to the edge, you are being sucked into the darkness below. It hurts so bad feel like you just can't hold on any longer and want to let go, let go of the pain, the constant suffering and slip gently into sleep, the nice kind of sleep without dreams and without waking.


I'm sure its not supposed to feel good but the truth is, some days it does.

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